CARAS Webinar: Under "Thewen" Force Power: A Framework for Conceptualizing BDSM Roles & Behaviors...
CARAS Webinar: Under "Thewen" Force Power: A Framework for Conceptualizing BDSM Roles & Behaviors through the Hyperarousal Adrenaline-Fear Activation of Fight-Flight-Freeze-Fawn Captive Response Domains
Presenter Leonora Anne Weston (aka Anne O Nomis), MA UCL
Saturday, May 21, 2022. 2-4pm (Pacific)/5-7pm (Eastern) - two hours.
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Attendance is free for CARAS subscribers, and $25 for others.
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Webinar Abstract
Leonora Anne Weston (aka Anne O Nomis) is author of the book ‘The History & Arts of the Dominatrix’ and an International teacher of Dominance studies. In the last two years, 2020-2022, Weston has turned her attention to the so-called “bottoms” of the BDSM scene, who variously self-identify by terms such as submissives, slaves, masochists, brats, kinksters, spankees and switches.
She developed questionnaires to draw out insight into the activities, preferences and psychologies of people identifying as submissives, slaves, masochists, brats, kinksters, spankees and switches, in correspondence with a Canadian psychology professor.
From out of her research data, and 13 years experience, she has developed a novel conceptual framework for interpreting the self-identifying roles and behaviors of BDSM bottoms, which may be of interest to CARAS group attendees and therapists.
Her novel theory highlights the role of excess “thewen” force power encounters in earlier life experiences, and most frequently in childhood. The old English term “thewen” means:
“To press, impress, force, press on, urge on, drive, press with a weapon, thrust, pierce, stab, threaten, rebuke, subjugate, crush, push, oppress, check”.
While the term “thew” meant slave, servant or bondsman, from proto-Germanic *þewjanÄ - to enslave or oppress.
She argues that the self-identifying roles of BDSM bottoms sit on Fight-Flight-Freeze-Fawn responses, in which “Flight” in captivity may become a yoked toil, in alignment with Complex PTSD theory (Walker 2018). Added to this is the “Floppy” Tonic Immobility state which is most discussed in the literature in relation to sexual assault victims (TeBrockhorst et al. 2015; Kalaf et al. 2017). She highlights that in BDSM, the surrender state in tonic immobility can be a highly desirable headspace and associated with altered states of consciousness. Her argument sits upon the well-established science of biological activation and role of epinephrine (adrenaline) in activating fear and hyperarousal responses. (Katz et al. 2021; Kozlowska et al. 2015)
Weston argues however that there is an additional “missing” fight-flight-freeze-fawn + floppy response domain, of “Twist-bend manipulate” to self-advantage and self-preservation. She draws attention to the historical work of the World War I physician Dr William H.R Rivers (1864-1922), who famously gave testimony at the parliamentary enquiry on Shell Shock, and in his 1920 work conceptualized five responses of 1) Flight; 2) Aggression; 3) Manipulative Activity; 4) Immobility; 5) Collapse. (Rivers 1920)
In the 1960s psychologists conflated Rivers’ “aggression” and “manipulative activity” into a single “Fight” category, and Weston argues strongly that they erred.
The “twist-bend” is strongly attested to within etymology (language) of kink. The Indo-European pie root *terkw (twist) gives rise to the English words “pervert”, “queer” and “torture”; and *wen- (2) (bend) words “subvert”, “weird” and “wrestle”. While the word “kink” comes from Old Norse kikna – “to bend backwards, sink at the knees”. She also points to first-person accounts of citizens captured in war or political imprisonment, which attest to twisting and manipulative activities in captivity (Moore-Gilbert 2022).
Weston accounts for each response domain approximating BDSM self-identities and behavior in a context of thewen force power activation. She links the data results of self-identified “masochist” and “brat” to the bend-twist to manipulate to self-interest and subjugated into a surrender state by elevated force power; the “submissive” with wishing to propitiate and please the Dominant (although notes variability in the use of the submissive self-identity); and the yoked toil and discipline of the “slave” to the run response as transformed by captivity and thewen force power, and implied by the archaic term “thrall” meaning runner and slave. While the floppy tonic immobility state is achieved by Dominatrices via the use of bondage, body bags, cocoons, latex vac beds, suspension, breath play and adult-baby play, to facilitate immobilized “floppy” helplessness and dependence states.
Lastly, Weston reexamines the historical record of the Dominatrix craft profession and BDSM arts (Nomis 2013), and from 13 years research of historical primary materials, under the lens of her theory. She draws attention to the “stubborn consistency” of lion furs and feline catsuits of Dominatrix figures, eliciting an apex predator fight-flight hyperarousal response. She discusses the recreation of specific childhood roleplay such as school teacher punishment and medical and sexual bodily experiences, as encounters with a thewen force power figure with time-travel to childhood lived experience. She outlines her conception of the significance of transfiguring invisible psychological trauma, by way of bondage, punishment and erotic torture made tangible and material, and the discharge of emotional pain through physical embodiment and response states, eroticized and transformed.
Although trauma is implied within the framework, Weston advocates for the framing of “thewen” force power experience combined with sublime awe, suspension, impact, response state, settling, processing, transformation, life force springing back, and revisiting of site and response domain, its power and potential in transfiguration. Therapists may consider Weston’s approach in supporting clients to examine their unconscious default into conscious choice, without stigma or judgment, and recognizing the transformative and processing power of imaginative self-directed and Safe, Sane and Consensual BDSM play.
Learning objectives:
1. Describe the fight-flight-freeze-fawn mechanism and tonic immobility states, associated with trauma, sexual assault and Complex PTSD theory.
2. Understand the historical framework of Dr William H.R. Rivers’ distinction of “aggression” and “manipulative activity” in 1920 in the context of World War I, and be able to discuss and debate whether psychologists were correct to conflate the two into a singular “fight” category from the 1960s onwards.
3. Gain familiarity with self-identifying terms of “bottoming” used in the BDSM scene, of submissives, slaves, masochists, kinksters, bottoms, spankees, switches and fetishists; which clients may use to self-identify with certain preferences implied, within a therapeutic setting.
4. Evaluate, through discussion and debate, the new conceptual framework outlined in this talk, in relation to fight-flight-freeze-fawn response domains, and BDSM constructed identities and practices.
References:
Byrne, Romana. 2013. Aesthetic Sexuality: A Literary History of Sadomasochism. New York: Bloomsbury. ISBN: 9781501308697
Gebhard, Paul H. 1976. “Fetishism and Sadomasochism.” In Sex Research: Studies From the Kinsey Institute, edited by Martin Weinberg, 156–66. New York: Oxford University Press. ISBN: 9780195020328
Kalaf, Juliana, Evando Silva Freire Coutinho, Liliane Maria Pereira Vilete, Mariana Pire Luz, William Berger, Mauro Mendlowicz, Eliane Volchan, Sergio Baxter Andreoli, Maria Inês Quintana, Jair de Jesus Mari, and Ivan Figueira. 2017. “Sexual Trauma Is More Strongly Associated With Tonic Immobility Than Other Types of Trauma - a Population Based Study.” Journal of Affective Disorders 215 (June): 71–76. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jad.2017.03.009
Katz, Carmit, Noga Tsur, Anat Talmon, and Racheli Nicolet. 2021. “Beyond Fight, Flight, and Freeze: Towards a New Conceptualization of Peritraumatic Responses to Child Sexual Abuse Based on Retrospective Accounts of Adult Survivors.” Child Abuse & Neglect 112 104905. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.chiabu.2020.104905
Kozlowska, Kasia, Peter Walker, Loyola McLean, and Pascal Carrive. 2015. “Fear and the Defense Cascade: Clinical Implications and Management.” Harvard Review of Psychiatry 23 (4): 263–87. https://doi.org/10.1097/HRP.0000000000000065
Moore-Gilbert, Kylie. 2022. The Uncaged Sky: My 804 Days in an Iranian Prison. Sydney, Australia: Ultimo Press. ISBN: 9781761150401
Nomis, Anne O. 2013. The History & Arts of the Dominatrix. Basingstoke, UK: Mary Egan Publishing & Anna Nomis. ISBN: 978099270100
Rivers, William H.R. 1920. Instinct and the Unconscious - A Contribution to Biological Theory of the Psycho-Neuroses. Cambridge University Press. Weblink: http://library.manipaldubai.com/DL/instinct_and_the_unconscious.pdf
TeBockhorst, Sunda Friedman, Mary Sean O’Halloran, and Blair N. Nyline. 2015. “Tonic Immobility Among Survivors of Sexual Assault.” Psychological Trauma. 7 (2): 171–78. https://doi.org/10.1037/a0037953
Van der Kolke, Bessel. 2015. The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind and Body in the Healing of Trauma. New York: Penguin Books. ISBN: 9780141978611
Walker, Pete. 2018. Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving. Lafayette, CA: Azure Coyote Publishing: ISBN: 1492871842
About the Presenter
Leonora Anne Weston has a Masters degree in Comparative Art and Archaeology from UCL (University College London), and has studied broadly across disciplines of Evolution of Human Cognition, Art History and Theory, Architecture and Design Studies, Law and Legal History, Classical Studies and Ancient World Studies.
She authored The History & Arts of the Dominatrix in 2013 under pseudonym of Anne O Nomis, a word-play on anonymous. It followed one year formal dungeon internship in 2009, professional craft education, four years of research in museums, libraries and underground sources, and is utilized as a curriculum text by Mistresses in teaching trainee apprentices in the USA, UK, Europe and Australia. Since 2015, she has been a full-time teacher of Dominance studies, with hundreds of students from around the world taking her 8 week “Seven Realm Arts” certificate course, from her dedicated Education Salon in Richmond Australia. She has taught at Oz KinkFest, DomCon USA and as teacher of the annual Villa Domme held in Tuscany and this year to be held in a castle in Portugal.
In 2022, she founded "The Ki by Leonora Weston" with new offices based in Melbourne city in Australia, specializing in the application of people’s activated hyperarousal responses to dominant figures, under high pressure, stress and arousal; to gain consciousness over response domains for application to workplace and personal relationships. She has two new books in progress for 2022 on The Thewen and The Emissary (with translation of Leopold von Sacher-Masoch novella, which pre-dates Venus in Furs), and her new work on The Ki.
For more information, please visit: https://historyofthedominatrix.com , https://www.villadomme.com , and/or https://www.theki.com.au